Now that we have talked about all the inner work (visualizations, focus, emotions, etc.) and the outer work (inspired action), it’s time to talk about results.
Simple rule: if it’s not what you want then, it’s not done yet.
I know we can get anxious when we don’t see the results that we seek. However, it is in our power to stay focused mentally on what we want until we receive it as we want it or better.
Sometimes, we tend to take score a little too soon. The “are we there yet?” habit repeats in our head, making us become very aware of where we are and continue to vibrate it hence, attract it. That causes us to stay in the same place because we are focused there. I know we mean well but if nothing inside us changes, nothing outside of us will change either.
Our job is to do our best to stay focused in our vision of what we want, while making peace with where we are and what we have, and then savour every idea, every action, and every accomplishment trusting we are on the right path.
But most of all, love yourself through it all. You are doing your best with what you have in the moment. You know it and you can trust it.
I made a video that I am sharing with you through the link below called “Loving yourself is the perfect recipe for success”:
Results, or the lack of, have no meaning. They don’t mean we are not worthy or deserving. They don’t mean we are not doing things right. They don’t mean we should be working harder/better. They are just a reflection of our vibration hence, our thoughts and emotions. That is it.
In any case, we are the ones, the only ones, assigning any meaning to them.
Not long ago I read a phrase on a post in social media that said: There is no such thing as failure, only feedback. I loved it! It is so powerful to recognize that whatever is happening is just feedback from the universe telling us what we are attracting or creating so that we can adjust it in our vibration and attract it as we want it or better.
When I read that phrase I remember thinking that we would be much more willing to make “mistakes” if we learned to ignore other people’s opinions. And now that we know that the feedback from the universe can come in the form of people’s opinions, or in the results we get, or in the way we feel, then we can feel empowered by it because we know that since we attracted it, we can change it.
As you move forward in your business, learn to celebrate every step you take, every idea, every action, and of course, every accomplishment.
We may have a habit of being goal oriented and only celebrate those occasions where goals are met although sometimes, not even in those cases a celebration or a recognition happens.
Let’s love ourselves to the point of celebrating every step, celebrating progress, celebrating ideas, celebrating achievements, celebrating starts and celebrating endings. For example celebrate that you did your meditation, and that you did your visualizations, and that you made sure to feel good before doing anything planned for the day, celebrate that you wrote your blog, celebrate that you had a new client and, so on.
When we seek those opportunities to celebrate and appreciate ourselves, our brain starts to work differently because now it is looking for opportunities for celebration instead of looking for opportunities for complaints or reprimands. It makes a big difference!
What do I mean by celebrating? Take a 5 min break and do a happy dance. Go to the mirror and tell yourself few times that you are proud of yourself. You can be as creative as you want. The point is not to create a distraction, the point is to love yourself and appreciate yourself throughout the journey all the way to the happy end goal.
Take care of your vibration
If we love ourselves unconditionally, we are able to feel good regardless of what is or not happening in our lives in the present moment.
It is a very important skill to feel good before getting the desired results. Why? Because we attract our desires by the way we feel. This is how we define what we receive in a way of manifestation including those goals and desires that we have.
Our job is the emotional result. We figure out how it feels to already have what we want, we enjoy it, we hold it stable then, it all starts flowing in.
I will dare to say that making sure you feel good triumphs any action you can take. So, make sure you do feel good and happy before taking any action and you will experience the leverage of being in alignment with the universe.
As we have spoken in previous blogs, we do not create by action alone, we create it all in our minds and as the universe plans it all out for us, it inspires us to take action. That inspired action is a completely different than massive action trying to make everything happen on our own.
I invite you to read my blog in the link below. It is called “Let’s have fun since we were born worthy!”:
You have in your hands the opportunity to create something that is very you, your business. Even though what you do in your business, the service or product you provide is super important, this is also your chance to create your own environment.
Think about other businesses you have seen, whether you worked in the corporate world or not, you saw many ways to manage and handle a business. I am sure you made decisions of things you liked and things you would do different.
Well, this is your chance to apply all of that and truly create a dream business that includes a happy and healthy environment for you, your employees/contractors, your clients, your providers, and for anyone that crosses path with you and your business. What do you want to express to them?
In the link below I am sharing with you a blog that I wrote about a couple of entrepreneurs that inspired me greatly because they intentionally created a completely different business than what they experienced ever before. Here is the link:
It has been my pleasure to share these blogs with you and the Canadian Small Business Women Association community. I love what I do and in doing it, I also get gifts.
I am very grateful for the time you have spent with me and truly hope that these blogs have helped you in some way to live better and create your dream business.
I am going to leave you with another inspirational phrase I read and loved:
Hold on to your dreams, they know the way.
CPA, CGA, Self-love and Wealth Coach, Founder Intuitive Living Path
Genoveva Vazquez, founder of Intuitive Living Path is a former accountant transformed into a Self-Love and Wealth coach. Genoveva is very passionate about helping people fall in love with themselves and with their lives all over again. Since she went through that moment of “wanting to throw in the towel” she has lived her life knowing that there’s more to life that what is showing up for many of us. We do love ourselves, we do have power, we do create our lives, we just need to start it all from the inside out.